It is a great feeling to love someone and be loved, but making it look like your whole life revolves around this person does not make you a strong and independent woman. Women have been stamped with emotional dependent and being too clingy, but some men also exhibits this qualities, they are not left out and also can be clingy and emotional dependent. Without further discussion this is what you could learn from independent people in a relationship;


1. They don’t get over involved

Independent couples do not feel the need to assess their partners every move, neither do they have that sort of unrealistic clingy expectation. You don’t need to keep your partner posted on everything, not only will your thoughts be consumed by an over analysis of your relationship, you will also have a whole host of new and interesting aspect of your life to discuss with your partner each time you two meet.

2. They let their partners be themselves

Independent couples are not confined to each other this helps to maintain their distinctive identity and its helps them realize that there is another world outside aside the realm of their relationship.

 3. They stand up for themselves

Independent people are merely self assured individuals who are comfortable in their own skin and unafraid of being assertive. This does not mean they are domineering and feel the need to browbeat or strong arm others into bending to their will, there is a difference between confidence and arrogance. They know when they are right and can stand for it.

4. They don’t hasten into life together

They value the time spent together so they know what a great commitment it is to cohabit with another person. When independent people move in together, it is because they truly honor and cherish each other.

5. They cultivate friendships outside of their relationship

Friendships are delightful, but it is essential to make friends separate from your relationship. This is what many believe they do but don’t always do, it is in your best interest to maintain a healthy relationship outside of your relationship.

 6. They love traveling by themselves

Independent people are not embarrassed by their relationship, they have as much fun when traveling with their lover or alone. You need to experience the feeling of traveling alone whether you are in a relationship or not. The chance to long for your partner when are away from home will make you love them the more when you get back and you will have a whole lot of stories to share with your partner.

 7. They don’t mind being alone

Independent people do not mind spending time by themselves. They enjoy being left to their meditation whether taking a walk by themselves watching movie or making a reservation for one. They know that it is going to be an amazing party of one.

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