You might have been with this person for a while and you are thinking of taking a big step and making it official, but have you asked yourself if this is the right person? Whatever you decide making findings to know if this person is your soulmate is never bad. Continue reading to know tough questions you should ask yourself before walking down the aisle with this person;

Smiling Black couple underneath sheet

Smiling Black couple underneath sheet

  • Do you really accept each other?

No one is perfect, of course there would be some things you would want to change about the person in your life, but no one should be in a situation where he/she is not allowed to be his/herself. Everyone would want to be accepted as special and unique as they are yet with little flaws.

  • Is for better or worse making me better or worse?

Does your partner encourage you to be your self or does he or she get intimidated by elevation and feel secure when you are not putting your best forward?

  • Am I happy to be in this relationship?

Being unhappy from home can affect all areas of your life, if you are always fighting or not feeling good about yourself, it doesn’t mean you have to quit you can seek the help of a counselor but when you want to get married to someone with the hope of he/she will change, you are merely making a very big mistake.

  • Who am I?

If you do not know who you are you cannot know if your partner is a good match.

  • Am I a parent or a partner?

No one wants to sleep with their mum, it is normal to take care of your boyfriend but when you are raising a boyfriend or rather husband, you will one day frown at his childish attitude.

  • Are we looking in the same direction?

Some couples do not talk about some issues like religion, babies or marriage with the hope that it will just happen or work themselves out, but before they could realize it, things will be more complicated and painful that they will be feeling dumped and used.

  • Do I really trust my partner

Trust is the foundation of any relationship, without trust there is no chance of any relationship.

  • Why am I in this relationship?

Are you in the relationship because of respect, love, trust or you value the person? Or because you are afraid of being alone, or about finances or you are scared to leave the life you have built?

  • Is the relationship balance? 

Are you on the same page in terms of compromise, care, support or sacrifice? Or is one of you doing most of the giving while the other sits down with their hands out?

  • Am I feeling trapped?

Are you in that relationship because you have invested so much? Do you sometimes find yourself wishing for a way out of that relationship or are you happy being in this relationship majority of the time?

Look through this questions and answer them with all sincerity.

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