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Partners mismatch has separated countless couples and is still destroying relationships. There is no course in school that teaches one how not to be a shitty boyfriend or girlfriend, though, biology taught about sex and the legality of marriage but when it comes down to being a shitty boyfriend or girlfriend, we were given no clue. So relationships are a trial and error that depends on both partners to choose their part.
I met him online and we have been talking and gisting, we got into each other,exchanged pictures and got deeper so we decided to meet .I went to his house and I noticed some very irritating things he does .This guy will on the television and put the channel in foot ball and will not consider me as his guest,even when he went to have his bath and I changed the channel to watch my telemondo he rushed out with soap in his body telling me to change it that he is hearing it in the bath room, I felt he was joking not until he took the remote control from me changed channel.In his car he will be listening to Igbo music, if I beg him to change it he will say no that I should get use to what he likes,even when I want to jokingly change it, the way he will get very aggressive and push my hand is very annoying .Another one is his sleeping habit,putting his legs on top of me and turning carelessly at night if I try to remove his leg he will roll and push me off the bed. I don’t know if that is deliberate or not .I spent a week in his house and it was not funny at all, the guy is all shade of petty.Do you all think I should continue or just break off, since we are just starting? He is nice and all that, gives me money when I ask, he even gave me 100k while I was going back and paid my flight ticket, anyways I worked for it. 1 week of riding him was not easy too. Lol. Please you all should advise me,I feel he is childish and not mature enough .
Everyone is different and you shouldn’t expect your partner to have the exact qualities you want in your man. All partners adjust after getting to know each other and that is one of the things that makes a relationship stronger. A guy that is very possessive will require so much time and patience from his partner to adapt, it is never easy but it will be worth the time. Meeting someone online, chatting and exchanging pictures does not make you know everything about the person.
From what I can deduce, he does not love you or consider you to be his girlfriend. Most couples that meet online took lots of time to admit because online dating has been stigmatized with a bad reputation and so he cannot just love or show affection towards you immediately. He is very matured that’s why he could give you that huge sum, well you said it yourself that you worked for the money so there is no point pointing at his character because even you didn’t go there to see your boyfriend rather your business partner.
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