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Long distance relationship have this scar of” it wont work” it actually favors some people, but for sure you will always get discouragement from family and best friends if you are in such a relationship. Honestly long distance relationship sucks and its not easy at all, the distance will make many things unachievable, things could even get complicated and can be from one challenge to another, there are times you will feel very sad and lonely but trust me It all depends on the partners involved. If both partners are committed,dedicated and understands what is involved they will always outweigh the stress.
This is quite a long story but I’ll try and make it short. I’m in a relationship with a guy who lives outside the country but he comes once every year. we’ve been together for 2yrs and counting. I love him very much and I know he loves me as well. My problem is, he has a woman over there and he told me just recently. Even though I had my suspicions long before he told me. He has been with her for 6yrs (dis makes me the other woman I guess) n still counting but he assures me dat nothing good will come out of that relationship and its me he loves. I’ve seen a picture of the woman(white) wearing a wedding band but he assures me they are not married although I’ve not told him about the picture. The other thing is he’s a muslim and am Christian. And he’s made it clear to me that I’ll have to convert which I agreed to but now am getting confused if it’s the right thing to do. This guy has been there through thick and thin and I don’t want to disappoint and hurt him. I don’t know what to do.
Is this guy worth sacrificing your time for? He has been with the white woman for six years even before he met you and he is just telling you after two years that is not a good sign dear, If he derives pleasure from this woman tomorrow will you still be in his heart?Nothing is impossible, He assured you that they are not married but what of the wedding band you saw on the woman in the photograph, She can’t just be wearing a wedding band without been married.
For you quitting your religion is also risky, he has been through thick and thin for you but you cannot forfeit your future for that and you really need to think ahead,Where is this relationship leading you to? I’m sure you wouldn’t want to get married to a guy that is already married to a white woman outside the country.Well its really hard to do but the best thing is to quit this relationship.
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