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This is a recurrent situation with so many dangers and yet many ladies do not consider the love affair with a married man as something improper. More often, you will hear ladies declaring how married men are the most caring lovers you can have, the facts are numerous, yes but before going into such dangerous and adventurous relationship, you should know that dating and loving a married man hardly ever works out.
Hello, let me go straight to the point, I started dating this guy february,he has been so loving and although we have our ups and downs we still Get through it,the problem is that he is married with two kids,although he complains about how his wife treats him-without respect and doesn’t give him attention or show him any love(they were 4yrs 22nd of this month). I have even met her before and his kids,he invited me for his wife’s sis wedding which we spent the night together a day before the wedding and the wife didn’t even care about his whereabouts…fast forward to now…I am almost 3 months pregnant for him,he is so afraid of his wife knowing because I guess she earns more than him and pays the bills, he keeps talking about how his mind hasn’t been settled and how he has tried to be distant away that he has betrayed her(although still keeps telling me he loves me and he wants the best for me but not this way that he wants me to be happy in my own home) the problem is am pregnant, and I cant remove it because I have problem with my health(low blood) please I need advice,should I just block him off and take care of my kids alone or we should keep talking till he gets over it… what should I do please
No matter what a married man feels for you or tells you, his priority will always be his wife and children, you sacrificing anything for such relationship will only end in nothing because he would never give up everything for you. No matter how nice he is and how much he loves you, his relationship with you was based on secrecy and he is not ready to take that risk of losing his wife and children.
We can’t judge you or ask you to leave him and continue your life now that a child is involved, but the truth is you have no claim over him both legally, financially or emotionally. To defend yourself from too much emotional pain, you need to understand that he can only be in a small section of your life and he will never be more than that no matter how many promises he has made to you. You need to get ready to live life as a single mother in other to take care of yourself and your baby.
Hey darlings, this sister is in need of your advice please help her out.
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