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Breakup is horrible and sometimes it takes a whole lot of things for us to see that the relationship is just not working anymore. It is quite hard to break up with someone you don’t love anymore especially when you know he/she loves you dearly. It is awful because you want to breakup with this person but you do not want to hurt his/her feelings but the fact is there are things we don’t want to happen but have to accept it because it would be for the best.
You are doing a good job,may God bless you.Please keep me anonymous.I need advice please because i am in a confused state.I have never been lucky with relationhips but i have been dating this guy for four years now but i am not enjoying it,although he is a nice guy but he can’t read and write and that breaks my heart alot.I do virtually everything for him when it comes to that aspect and because of this he can’t get a job and i am left with the burden of taking care of him because he can’t get a reasonable job.I am a university graduate and i have tried all i can to help him but he is not evening willing to learn.When i want to end the relationship he will beg and beg and even threathen to harm himself if i leave him but i can’t remain like this forever and he is not talking about settling down anytime soon and i am 28yrs old already. Although i do not have anyone to go to if i leave him but i don’t love him again either.Please i need advice
It is a glaring fact that you are in this relationship because you feel you won’t see someone else and not because you love your partner. There is no point avoiding the signs that you don’t want to be with him anymore and that, it is time to call it a quit. You are stuck in this relationship because you do not want to hurt his feelings but the fact is you will one day hurt him so it’s best you quit the relationship now rather than live in a lie.
You are merely prolonging the pain in your heart if you continue in this relationship, you can help him learn to read and write but you cannot force your heart to love him. You shouldn’t see yourself as been selfish or bad in breaking up with someone you do not love anymore, it is not wrong. Don’t be overwhelmed with feelings of guilt or disgust, make him understand that it is a hard thing for you to do and he might just understand your feelings.
Hey darlings this sister is in need of your advice please help her out.
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