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People are more than happy to share their experience when they fall in love but no one really talks about falling out of love, It’s not easy to describe and sometimes you cant really place your fingers on this feeling. Honestly, Falling out of love isn’t so black and white, It could be that the two have just ended the honeymoon and reality tends to set in or, Both partners had just gone through a rough patch which is common in every relationship. There are times when a relationship has run his course and so has the love. As disheartening as it is, It is better to realize this now than waiting thinking things will change, Only to grow more unhappy and stagnant in your relationship.
Hi Amaka, my name is stellah am 26 yrs old, i have a problem with the man am living with, at first i loved him so much but on his side he had alot of women at the end we got separated but after months to pass he came back to me asking for forgiveness,, i forgave him and now we are living together again but it is so hard on my side to live with him because i don’t feel anymore the love i had before unfortunately even on the side of sex i don’t feel him at all always it is like he is raping me am trying hard but I can’t,, then i real don’t know what i should do. Should i tell him or stay quite? Please i need ur advice
You shouldn’t have gone back to him when you know you don’t love him anymore. There is no point staying in such a relationship and you can’t keep deceiving yourself and the guy. He might love you and that is why he came back asking for forgiveness and you gave him false hope. Think of it this way what if you where in that position? In his mind he is thinking he has a girlfriend not knowing you don’t even have any single feelings for him.
You can’t keep pretending and scared of hurting his feelings, You can’t stay in a relationship out of pity, Please let him know about how you feel towards him and move on with your life so he can do same.
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