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Good evening, Am in my late 20s about completing my NYSC. Ever since I got out of my first relationship with my first and d only man I have ever loved I have not been able to keep other men coming my way. Am not really a bad person, am not even materialistic because even as an undergraduate I was working. No man I have ever dated that doesn’t not wish to settle down with me but one thing will lead to another and there will be change in plan. In fact am losing hope of ever getting married may be I should just get pregnant for my first love and be a single mother. Right now am single and I have been for more than a year. Pls do u have any advice for me? Thanks
Amaka :Dear friend, it’s never advisable to settle for what doesn’t meet up to your standards. I’m sure you are not doing anything bad but maybe you are trying on your own without seeking Gods face, just pray about it and I know sometimes it feels like all hope has been lost but just pray and have faith that God that created you has the best blessings in store for you. And try not to think and focus all you attention on that, I know in an African setting its almost impossible but try and build yourself daily to the best that you can be because sometimes the best things come when you are not looking for them. So my advice is build yourself to attract the right person and very importantly keep praying because we wrestle not against flesh and blood my sister!! So don’t settle for less, just believe that you are better than that!
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