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Finding out that the guy you love is married is extremely painly especially when the person hid it from you. You know it’s not romantic, sexy or charming to help a married man cheat on his wife, you will only be setting yourself up for heartbreak if you continue holding on to him. A married man will not be free to love you the way you deserved to be loved and you will be merely participating in a dirty and ugly business that will put a stain on your soul.


There is this guy that I really like. Actually I think I have fallen in love with him. I know that he likes me too. The problem is, before even starting liking each other I asked him if he has a girlfriend and he told me that they already broke up because she told him that she can’t wait for 2 years for him to go back to the country. Note that we are both living outside our country. So I was just going through his profile and saw that the girl already has a baby girl for him and they are married. Now am confused I don’t know what to do and I don’t want to tell him I know the truth. And also we are working together so I can’t avoid him. What should I do. Please advise.

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Dear Betrayed

The reason why men are happier than women is because they never put their relationship first (90% of them), and women should also learn not to put their relationship first. He never told you he was married with a daughter, that only shows he is not to be trusted and another thing you should put into consideration is a child is involved. No matter how much he loves you, he will forever be obligated to his child and he may resent you if you try to come in between them on the long run.

You don’t want to ask him about it but are you sure of what you saw? It might be a misunderstanding which needs to be cleared. Try and talk to him about it, find out if he is married or not, if he is married then you can’t be with him. He will be lying to his wife, lying to you and lying to himself. You need to let him go and try as much as possible to avoid him totally to save yourself from heartbreak in the future.

Hey darlings, this sister is in desperate need of your advice, please leave your comment and advice in the comment box below.



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