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Breakup’s can leave one devastated, depressed, sad and disturbed. But the best way to forgo everything and erase the thought of paying back is to accept that the breakup is for the best. You will only prolong the pain, if you keep hanging on to what you can’t have. Raving jealousy, anxiety and a childish feeling that even though you don’t want him, you don’t want anyone else to have him are all common when a former lover announces he’s getting married.


Please help me I want to revenge on my boyfriend or I kill myself. I can’t focus at work, m disturbed, depressed, sad, lonely and the only thought in my head is hurting him. I read the story of I destroyed his manhood and I also want to do the same. Can you connect me with the grlI have known dis guy for 8yrs and he dumped me jst to find out  he is getting married dis wknd. Jst hlp me plssssssss. I don’t have frnds as such… depression is killing me evryday. I jst want him hurt.

Dear Betrayed

 The worst way to cope when a man you love leaves you, is to sit and sulk yourself over the issue. Yes you need to grieve, but not all day. Give yourself permission to cry a little, then divert your energy into something that makes you feel good about yourself. You read the story of how the girl destroyed his manhood but she later regretted her actions. Pay back is not the best way to cope with a breakup, it will only prolong the pain and make it seem unforgettable.

Many have gone through similar situations and have survived it, Instead of obsessing about why he left you to marry someone else, focus on not losing your job and try going out with friends. Do things that makes you happy and learn how to re-frame reality and see the relationship for what it was. You need to let him go, remove the thought of hurting him from your minds and channel yourself into something productive and good for you.

Hey darlings, this sister is in desperate need of your advice, please leave your comment and advice in the comment box below.



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