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Please, i am currently dating a guy who stood by me in hard times and even though i wasn’t in love with him by then, he had all the patience to wait. Now i am madly in love with him and he also does, but, the issue here is, we hv been together for 2yrs now and counting but his concentration is school school school nothing about marriage, now that he has got a job doing, i hardly see him and he keeps pulling away all in the name of,” i need money to marry u”. we even talked about it this morning n he begged me to hold on for him, i just wasn’t happy but i couldn’t say coz i don’t want to spoil his day. He is currently doing his masters and will be traveling outside Ghana to do his PhD. He keeps begging me to hold on for him and that he will marry me soon. But u know our African parent(Daddy) since all my sisters are married and i am the last born n only one left to marry, my daddy keeps calling and giving me pressure to agree to the other guys around.Amaka
You say he has stood by you through your tough times, why not stay by him during his, its not like he is cheating or doing something bad he is trying to grow himself, of course he needs money to marry you or would your dad give out your hand in marriage for free?
You attest to the fact that he loves you, i absolutely think you should hold on for him.[yop_poll id=”600″]
I have the same problem my boyfriend force me to sex… if don’t agree he will breakup wit me
If he breaks up with you then let him go, love is very understanding and considerate, it would not force you to do what you are not willing or ready to do. Please show him the exit door if he is not ready to wait till you are ready to take the step.
i like but dont’ love this guy. he has everything i desire in a man after much heart breaks from others but he is not the kind of man i find attractive to me and he is planning of getting married to me. and will b so hurt if i breakup with him cos He is so addicted to me and love me so much cos i’m a kind of girl every man we wanna be with. please what do i do?
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