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Sometimes we engage in silly acts we never expected ourselves to be involved in and we start blaming someone for it. In life, you are responsible for everything that you do, either good or bad. You must always try to do the right thing. I don’t think under any circumstances should you find your cousin, brother or sister sexually attractive. I have a female friend that sleeps on the same bed with her brother and nothing happened or is happening well I think it has to do with self discipline and upbringing. So to parents reading this, I would advise that you take proper care of your kids, teach them the implications of premarital sex early and teach them the right and wrong.
AM A LADY OF 25 YEARS OF OLD, THE PROBLEM AM HAVING IS BEYOND MY MEASURE, AS IT IS I DON’T KNOW WHERE TO START FROM WHEN I WAS YOUNGER MUCH MORE YOUNG TO KNOW THE CONSEQUENCE OF THIS DUE, I HAD AN INTERSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH A RELATION OF MY AND ALSO HAD OUTER SEX WHICH IS AGAINST MY CULTURE, I NEVER KWN THIS WAS NOT UNTIL I TRAVEL TO MY HOME TOWN FEW YEARS BACK TO LEAN THINGS ABOUT MY CULTURE. EVERY TIME I START WONDERING WHILE AT MY AGE I HAVE NEVER BEEN INTO ANY SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP OR BEEN PURPOSED TO THE ONLY THING THAT FLASHES MY MIND IS THIS TWO ACTS, ANYTIME I GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOME ONE I CONSIDER TO LIKE WHAT HAPPEN IS I WILL DREAM AND IN THIS REPEATEDLY DREAMS, THE GUY WILL ETHER BE GETTING MARRIED TO ANOTHER LADY IN NO TIME THE DREAM WILL BECOME A REALITY. THIS HAS HAPPEN OVER AND OVER TIMES. I HAVE PRAYED AND FAST ABOUT IT BUT HAVE NOT SEEK ANY SPIRITUAL ADVICE YET. AM THINKING OF GOING FOR SPIRITUAL CLEANSING IN MY HOME TOWN THIS MIGHT BE AGAINST THE CHRISTIAN BELIEVE BUT THE TRUTH IS AM MOST SCARED TO END THIS YEAR 5 DEC WHICH IS MY BIRTHDAY STILL A SINGLE LADY. PLEASE I SERIOUSLY NEED YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO. I AM THE LAST CHILD OF MY PARENTS AND THE ONLY ONE REMAINING TO BE MARRIED AM SURE YOU KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS? MY DADDY’S GREATEST DESIRE WAS FOR ME TO BE MARRIED BEFORE HE IS PASS ON TO GLORY, 27TH DEC 2015 HE PASSED ON TO REST WITH THE LORD WITHOUT CARRYING HIS GRANDCHILDREN FROM ME PLEASE I DON’T WANT THE SAME THING TO HAPPEN TO MY MUMMY. SEND ME YOUR REPLY’S THROUGH MY GMAIL WHICH I USED IN SENDING THIS THANKS
Dear Worried Babe,
I quite understand your plight and I love your courage to open up about everything. Why should you stoop so low to sleep with your relatives anyways let me not drag issues because the deed has been done so right now….You need to work on yourself, don’t believe that your life must radiate around men and don’t be in haste to sleep with every guy that comes your way. Just be yourself and live life, love tends to come when we are not looking or expecting it. Work on your self esteem and don’t be so desperate to settle down right away because you have a lot to work on. Try to forget about the past and prepare yourself for the future. Mingle with new friends, read inspirational books and hope for the best In all I wish you the best.
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