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Dating would be a million times easier if we could read minds, but we will inevitably end up hearing things we don’t want to hear so it’s probably best that the most we can do is guess. Being attracted to someone can be a beautiful thing especially if that someone pays so much attantion to you, however when the attraction is taking too long to blossom we become worried.
HI AMAKA, I MET A GUY 2 MONTHS AGO THROUGH A FWEND OF MINE ,SHE TOLD ME HE WAS HER HUSBANDS ELDER BRO,EVER SINCE WE STARTED TALKING ON BBM ,HE SEEM TO LIKE ME AND REQUESTED FOR US 2 MEET ,WHICH HAPPENED NOT TOO LONG ,BUT I NOTICED AFTER WE MET ,SOME COUPLE OF WEEKS AFTER HE STOPPED CHATTING ME UP,WEN I CALL HE IGNORES ,BUT REPLIES TO MY CHAT ON BBM VERY WELL,BUT DOSENT CALL OR CHAT ME UP. I WAS FORCED TO ASK WHY HE HAD REFUSED TO CHAT ME UP AND HE SAID HE HAS BEEN SO BUSY LATELY,SO I TOOK I STOPPED CoMPLAINING
AND STARTED CHATTING HIM 1S IN A WEEK,BUT AM SO CONFUSED AND INLOVE ,I WONDERED WHY HE HASNT MADE ANY MOVE ,NOR EVEN ASK ABT MY RELATIONSHIP,BUT AM ALREADY IN LOVE WITH HIM,DONT KKNW WAT TO DO,COS MUST TYM I TRY TO FORGET ABT HIM ,ITS NT WRKING OUT,
There are many reasons a man will act interested in you but will never take it up a notch by asking you out on a date. One is he might be involved with someone else but he enjoys your company and thinks you are a good woman or he might be attracted to you physically but doesn’t feel that gut level of emotional attraction towards you, or maybe he might be getting mixed feelings about you.
The reasons are endless since you can never really tell what a person is thingking. So it’s best that you try to see him as a friend so you won’t get hurt. If he ask’s you out fine but if not forget about him and consider him your friend.
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