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There is a common notion that marriage kills freedom, It always seems like your wings will be cut down by your partner and you are not going to be able to fly high again that is the reason most single people are proud of being independent. After marriage the picture will definitely change and you will be answerable for every actions. That is something most people are not ready to do. Marriage is an important decision that will affect the rest of anybody’s life and thinking through your decisions will help you make sure it is the right time, person and place. Most people harbor unconscious thoughts that says love equals loss and unless this belief is worked consciously, It will determine your actions and you will be denying yourself the possibility of a lifetime of immense richness that can arise when you take a risk of committing to a shared life.
Marriage is a huge step and its normal for you to think through before venturing into it. If you take a look at the marriage fears you will see that they always simmer down to one that is fear of loss especially for a career driven woman like you. Being married does not mean your life and career will end its just another phase of life that you need to adjust to, Our mothers adjusted and so did their mothers too. Though the increase in divorce rates and incidence of cheating partners has made most people loose faith in marriage but you cannot use all those scenarios to determine yours, The person you married today won’t be the person you are married to in years to come so it now depends on how you handle the change that will determine the sanctity of your marriage.
Its up to you to make your marriage work and you don’t need to be pessimistic about it, Always hope for the best and put your mind towards it. If you have really thought about your decision that you love him and he loves and you see no reason why you should decline his proposal you can build your life and career in his country or you get a transfer from your company if they have a branch over there.
Hey darlings this diva is between a rock and a hard place where do you think she should go from here.
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