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No one will argue that it is incredibly painful to consider the possibility of your husband cheating on you especially when you are unconditionally faithful and when you come to the realization that your husband isn’t affectionate anymore it may seem like it happened all of a sudden, But relationships rarely change overnight, They change slowly overtime . This slow change can make it very hard to see it happening. Sometimes we have a sense that things are not quite right, But with the business of life we really don’t pause enough to think about it. There’s also a part of us that doesn’t want to know or face the painful reality that the affection from our partner is gone.
Hi Amaka, I am a young lady of 27yrs,I got married in 2013 to the love of my life,we met on fb and dated for a year after which he propose to me,he is a very nice man ,he has a good well pay job.i love this man and I respect him ,we have a daughter and we are expecting a Son in less than two months.now my problem is his attitude has change recently I don’t understand him anymore any little thing I do get him angry and he live d house stay out all night and return when he want.i have always been one to say sorry even when I’m not at fault just for peace to rain.if I don’t meet him for sex he never comes to me unlike when we were dating.each time we have problems he takes it on our lil daughter too and it breaks my heart.i am always crying each time he went out at night.i keep asking myself what I have done wrong.so two weeks ago I saw a particular girl pictures on his phone and I know this very girl tho she is not my friend.somehow I met this girl and beat d hell of her because I was so heartbroken .my husband doesn’t care about me and our daughter anymore he can go two weeks without talking to me or my girl..so now because I fought with d girl he doesn’t eat my food or sleep in the same room with me anymore.i am so fed up and tire of d whole situation I don’t no what to do.this very girl has his pictures on her phone and even save his number with my Hero..I took d girl phone and read their chat it’s obvious they are dating.when I confronted him d only tin he said was if I can stay I should go with my condition I’m in pain.i don’t sleep at night I’m even scared of losing my pregnancy act of been worried..pls I need a mature mind to advice me on what to do..right now I feel like living him..after beating the girl,still I apologize to him ,he ask me to call the girl and apologize too which I did.i have lost my respect totally from him.i did everything for peace not because I am stupid.but till date he is still going out with the girl…pls tell me what to do.
In as much as you were heartbroken you shouldn’t have gone to beat your husband’s supposed mistress, It is an unruly and senseless act, you have no business with her you should deal with your husband not washing your dirty linen public. I cannot precisely tell you if he has lost interest in your marriage or he is just attracted to that girl, But for him to take it on his little daughter that is going too far. Not all situations require violence, to make things right sometimes you just need to be confident and stay strong. You are an expectant mother and that should be your utmost priority at the moment if you do really care for your baby, Forget about anything concerning that girl and your husband and focus on yourself and your baby. Ignore everything, Put yourself together and take care of your kids he will surely come around when he sees you no longer worry yourself over his issue.
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