There are levels of things we should tolerate in a relationship, things we can bear and not things you think you need to change. We often confuse everything and then we either end up suffering ourselves or our partner. Either way, here are the things we need to draw lines to or things you need to say a big NO to;
To be honest, I don’t think cheating can ever be a mistake, though, a one time thing can be a mistake some times. Cheating is like the mother of all the problems that can ensue in a relationship, someone who cheats ones has the potential of doing it all over again and the second time, they will be better at hiding their tracks. Take cheating seriously because the simple act of cheating speaks volume about your relationship and a person who cheats does not respect the honesty of your relationship or obviously wants more out of it so desperately that they would go ahead and find other ways to get it. And secondly, once your trust breaks, it does not recover completely, it will leave you in torturing position making you doubt your partner unconsciously.
No one deserves to be tortured or pushed around in any way, there are different kinds of abusive relationships and none is worth putting up with. Many people think that their abusive partner will get better with time, the truth is nothing gets better it only becomes worse. Whether they are verbally or physically abusing you, whether they are telling you to leave your friends and family for them and constantly belittling you, you should draw the line because it is just not happening. A person who abuses you emotionally will start hitting you before you know it, most men are subjected to physical abuse and it needs to stop, most of the women would say “it would stop” but it never does, though, it’s good to have hope but always be realistically hopeful don’t put your health or safety in jeopardy for the sake of love and believe me if you are being abused and thinking that it will stop, you are the only one in that love.
3. Partner who blames you for anything that goes wrong in their life
At times people always have a hard time accepting their shortcomings, they constantly need someone to take their blame for them. You don’t have to feel otherwise because what happens in their life is as a consequences of their choices, though, they feel that everything they do is perfect only you could make mistakes and every time something bad happened in his life, you are to be blame for it.
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